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April 16th, 2026
​A newsletter by Anne-Laure Le Cunff​

🕯️ Work Anxiety

This is something I hear time and time again in the Ness Labs community: on the outside, everything looks fine. The job is interesting, your colleagues are smart, and there’s no obvious reason to complain. And yet, you often feel a sort of tension before meetings or a restless energy that lingers after logging off in the evening.

This kind of anxiety is confusing because it doesn’t come from a job you hate, a bad client, or a micromanager. Plus, in professional environments where competence and confidence are expected, acknowledging that you’re constantly slightly on edge can feel risky.

This might be especially true for freelancers, entrepreneurs, and people in independent work arrangements, as research shows that 68% of people expect lower chances of contract renewal if they disclose any struggles with their mental health.

That’s why work anxiety often stays hidden, despite how common it is. For instance, a survey found that fewer than half of employees whose stress interferes with work have talked to their employer about it. Here were the reasons:

• fear their boss would interpret it as lack of interest or unwillingness to do the activity (34%)
• fear being labeled “weak” (31%)
• fear it would affect promotion opportunities (22%
• fear it would go in their file (22%)
• fear being laughed at or not taken seriously (20%)

The result is a quiet struggle that a lot of us carry alone, even in roles we otherwise enjoy.

So, if you love your team and your projects but still struggle – what’s driving your work anxiety?

One of the most common drivers is high internal pressure. Research suggests that people who care deeply about their work often set very high standards for themselves, especially in roles they find meaningful.

Over time, this can create a constant fear of underperforming or needing to prove yourself.

Another contributor is uncertainty. Humans are wired to try to predict what comes next. Shifting priorities, unclear feedback, and organizational changes (or even, at a higher level, broader global and economic uncertainty) can all create a hard-to-pinpoint kind of anxiety.

This unpredictability alone can significantly increase anxiety even when nothing “bad” is happening directly to you.

Finally, blurred boundaries play a role. Especially with remote work, your work can seep into evenings and weekends, which means your brain never fully shuts down. This can lead to what psychologists call free-floating anxiety: a persistent sense of unease without a clear trigger.

Whatever the reason behind your work anxiety, telling yourself to “just relax” rarely works. What works is focusing on small evidence-based shifts that make anxiety easier to manage. I call it the CALM toolbox.

• Cut back on stimulants. Before reaching for more complex solutions, consider the basics. Research shows that caffeine can produce physiological effects that are nearly indistinguishable from anxiety symptoms, and when you’re already stressed, it amplifies them. Switching to decaf or herbal tea during high-pressure periods is a low-effort change that can make a real difference.

• Active breaks instead of powering through. When anxious, the instinct is often to work harder to clear the backlog and earn some relief. But this approach backfires. Studies consistently show that physical movement, even a short walk or a quick run, meaningfully reduces anxiety.

• Lean on someone you trust. Anxiety tends to feed on rumination. Conversation interrupts that loop by introducing new perspectives and ways of framing the situation. Whether it’s a colleague, a friend, or your manager (if the relationship allows for it), sharing what you’re going through can break the cycle more effectively than thinking your way out of it alone.

• Monitor patterns. Metacognitive practices like journaling can help you step back from day-to-day stress and notice what’s actually driving your anxiety. When you identify recurring triggers – certain meetings, specific types of tasks, particular times of the month – you gain the agency to make changes before anxiety becomes the default setting.

Most importantly, experiment! See which parts of the CALM toolbox seem to have the most positive impact in terms of anxiety symptoms, and keep on iterating until your toolbox works for you.

Occasional anxiety at work is, to some extent, unavoidable. But chronic, unmanaged anxiety is not something you just have to live with. By approaching it with a willingness to experiment, you can build a relationship with work that feels a lot more sustainable and a lot less like bracing for impact.

🔬 Tiny Experiment of the Week

Ready to put these ideas into practice? Try this week’s tiny experiment to help manage work anxiety:

Capturing specific triggers helps you spot patterns instead of experiencing anxiety as free-floating. Keep it simple: just “what happened” and “how I felt” to make it easy to stick with. Want to dig deeper? ​​Get your copy of Tiny Experiments​.

👀 Into the Mind of...

AYELET FISHBACH

Each week I ask a curious mind about their habits, routines, and rituals. This week we learn from Ayelet Fishbach, professor of behavioral science at the University of Chicago and author of Get It Done: Surprising Lessons from the Science of Motivation.

1. One daily practice you can’t do without? Writing. I write every day. It’s how I process information and develop new ideas. I don’t feel I have true clarity on a topic until I’ve written about it.

2. One strategy to restart your creative engine? Be comfortable not having an idea (aka low need for closure). I try to welcome the time before clarity emerges. I tell myself to look forward to engaging in the process itself, rather than hoping to have a finished idea as soon as possible.

3. One mindset shift that transformed your work? Wise motivation. I used to think of motivation as willpower: highly motivated people have a stronger “motivation muscle.” Then I realized that motivation is less about pushing harder and more about being strategic. When you understand the psychology of motivation and develop insight into yourself, motivation becomes easier. You move from trying harder to working smarter.

Get it Done

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• The 24-Hour Writing Sprint is on April 24-25. It’s 24 hours of writers around the world sitting down to write together. A brilliant chance to make a start, get back into something, or simply spend an hour in great writerly company. It’s free to join.

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🗓️ Community Events

If you enjoy the newsletter, you’ll love our community of curious minds conducting tiny experiments within a safe space and learning together. Here is an overview of upcoming events (full calendar):

• Build consistency without rigidity. In this session, Gosia Fricze will help you explore the difference between consistency and perfection, how rigid routines can sometimes work against us, and how to build habits that are steady but flexible.
​• Explore career change the balanced way. Join entrepreneurs Kat Wong and Helen McGuire in this interactive session to learn how to become a founder while juggling life’s responsibilities.
​• Building professional influence as an introvert. Join author Stephanie Thoma for a workshop where she will walk you through how intentional relationship-building, strategic communication, and calm presence can help you build meaningful connections, share your ideas with confidence, and grow your influence as an introvert.
​• Reimagine your relationship to retirement. In this workshop, Jim Eagar will share what he’s learned from his own experience and from coaching others through the retirement transition, including the phases most retirees go through, the losses nobody warns you about, and how tiny experiments can help you find your way back to purpose and meaning.​
• Improve your knowledge management system. Join our next PKM Collective meeting where we learn from one another through sharing how our systems work in the real world and give new PKM users a leg up.
​• Make progress on your project. Join Kathryn Ruge for our Monday ‘body doubling’ coworking session to work on personal or work-related projects that you want to make progress on, covering all timezones.
​• Host your own workshop. Do you have an idea for a short presentation and Q&A or a workshop you’d like to trial? Test your first iteration in the Ness Labs community and get feedback. We promote all sessions here in the newsletter.

All of these and future events are included in the price of the membership (only $49 for one year), as well as access to our courses, workshop library, and a dedicated space to track your tiny experiments.

Until next week, take care!
Anne-Laure.