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Friday 13 February 2026

Guide

Social anxiety

How to network when you’re socially anxious

Do networking events fill you with dread? Here’s how to manage your fears, show up, and take advantage of the opportunities

by Fallon Goodman

Guide

Identity

Why we should embrace ‘nepantla’ – the in-betweenness of life

In an age of strong political commitments, a Nahuatl word encapsulates the freedom to let go of what has become oppressive

by Carlos Alberto Sánchez

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Sex and sexuality

My queer breakup helped me leave the cage that held my mind

by Margie Sarsfield

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ocd

Sexual OCD doesn’t fit the stereotypes. That compounds the pain

Video by ABC Science

Loving someone who is ill or struggling can be harder than being ill. I have been on both sides of the equation

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Poetry

For navigating an existential crisis, try reading Wordsworth

by Sam Dresser

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Knowledge and reason

Why the search for proof can’t be separated from faith

by Adam Kucharski

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Caregiving

I had cancer. Did I need all the miserable comforters too?

by Lisa Simone Kingstone

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ocd

Adrift at sea, Nestor struggles to control the chaos within

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Understand

The inner workings of the mind: emotions, memory, decision making and more.

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Relate

The bonds that tie us: family, friendships, love and community.

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Heal

Dealing with psychological challenges and sustaining body and mind in the face of adversity.

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Transcend

Finding meaning, wonder and spirituality.

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